Study Group

What Can I Do to Help Them?

    Jerry: What’s the best thing that I, as an individual, can do for other people who are having physical problem?

    Abraham: You never help others when you allow yourself to be a sounding board for their complaints. Seeing them as you know they want to be is the most valuable thing you can do for them.     Something that means removing yourself from their vicinity because you are near them, it is difficult not to notice their complaints you might say to them, “I’ve learned the power of my attention and thought, and so as I hear you speaking of what I know you don’t want, I must tell you that I must remove myself, for I don’t want to contribute to your miscreating. ”Try to distract them from their complaints; try to help them focus upon some positive aspects…do your best to imagine their recovery.

   You will know when you are of value to anyone when you are able to think about the person and feel good at the same time. When you love other without worry, you are an advantage to them. When you enjoy them, you help them. When you expect them to succeed, you help them. In other word, when you see them as your own Inner Being sees them, then and only then is your association with them to their advantage

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